| Three lies we were told - by Pat Parelli
- 1. We own him, so just get on and go
- 2. Kick him to go
- 3. Pull the reins to make him stop
A horse is more than a horse, they are an attitude with 4 feet!
1. Consider how people
communicate- By talking and body language. Talking is largely
used . But if the verbal words are
conflicting with the body language, the body language will be believed over
what is said.
2. Consider how horses
communicate-_ By body language only. He who can get the other
horse to move their feet - Wins ! The dominant leader will make others move
their feet, getting them to yield.
Horses are herd animals and Movement
is survival to the horse
Survival through
movement starts from the moment they are born and includes the ability to
respond immediately of their leaders commands. For us to be considered
trustworthy of being a leader - we have to speak and be good at their language.
Pat Parelli would say, a
horse wants to know how much you know - more importantly, if you care. If
you don't care, they really don't care how much you know! Put your heart in your hand.
All horses are
sensitive enough to feel a fly, so they all can relearn from the slightest
touch if presented by proper timing and release.
I learned it is not beneficial to prevent the horse from making mistakes. Allow
the horse to make mistakes so he can learn, just be there to direct the horse
to a better place. Like us, horses learn through experience, but experience- is
nothing but learning from your mistakes. Consider how a police officer gives a
ticket. They don't get mad- they just enforce the consequences.
Pat Parelli's
program stresses getting respect on the ground
where you are safer, before you get on their back. Pat starts by teaching the 7
games on the ground to develop respect.
Below are some
blurbs of Parelli's program.
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We have four
obligations
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Horse has four
obligations
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1. Don't act like a
predator
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1. Don't change gait
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2. Use the natural
power of focus
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2. Don't change
directions
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3. Think like a
horse-man
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3. Look where your
going
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4. Have an independent
seat
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4. Act like a partner
not a prey animal
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Three parts of horse personalities
1. Genetic make up-
example: Quarter horses might think different than Arabians. Some might think
claustrophobic, some might think throttle-alcoholic
2. Learned behavior - From their mom, herd, environment, humans
3. Spirit- the amount of energy he puts into life - this is the most important
to not try and change in a horse. Prior to buying your horse, careful how you
choose - It could be your poison. Pick a horse suited to your needs, your
personality and your experience
Three ways to respond to your requests
1. Response-_ __ with thought process
and understanding and respect
2. Ill response- with thought process and understand and disrespect
3. Reaction- no thought process, no understanding and with fear or surprise
Make it fun, grade their reaction or response on a scale of 1-10 and
consistently ask the horse to improve. Keep in mind, they will be grading you
too ! Are you a jerk, too wimpy and so on...
The six keys of a Natural Horseman
Tools - using proper tools
Time - taking the time that it takes so you are not always re-fixing.
Techniques - choices of your approach and being used properly
Attitude - the most obvious and perhaps the most important
Knowledge - adjusting to fit the situation
Imagination - Something you can't buy and only you can add
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